I am learning. I had this experience once, well several times really. This time a gal came to me very stressed and emotional. She had been working her self into a big emotional ball for months. She finally let me have it. She cried, she made me cry. She got loud, she fought. Unfortunately I fought back. 🙁 I didn’t listen to this verse. I did it all wrong. I was hurt. I was in distress. I tried to correct her. I tried to rebuke her. I tried to show her my reasons, I tried to change her mind about me.